GLADYS TANKERSLEY BAILEY
One hundred years old!
Gladys celebrates her 100th with friends and family at the
Cullman (AL) Civic
Center on December 28th,
2013. With only a few short exceptions Cullman County has been her home all her
life. She is the last remaining member
of the Cullman High School Class of 1931.
What makes Gladys so special is the fact that she still has
a keen mind, interested in everything, reading books and newspapers, attending
church regularly, playing cards at the
Crane Hill Senior Center twice a week, and pretty well keeping up with her
immediate and extended family. Now that
takes in a large number of people, because Gladys is the eldest of twelve children
born to Judge and Virgie Fowler Tankersley.
She has outlived six of her siblings.
Her health isn’t great but she rarely complains, and gets around pretty
well with a walker. It is her mind that
has remained young and vibrant.
When Gladys finished High School she had a scholarship to Spencer Business
School in New Orleans .
Her studies there were cut short when our youngest sister Jo (Morris)was
born, and because her mother was hospitalized for more than a month Gladys was summoned
home to take care of the new baby, and assist in marshalling the other kids in
the family to survival. That was in
March of 1933, shortly after the family had their farm and home foreclosed, an
altogether too common an occurrence in the Great Depression.
Gladys’ High School sweetheart, Kert Bailey, had joined the
Navy. They married in 1936 and for a
brief time lived and worked in Southern California . That was where their first child, Betty, was
born. Kert was called back into the
Navy during WWII, but after that he became a Rural Route mail carrier in Crane
Hill, and they built a new home in the
country. That is where Gladys lives
alone, today. Son Harold was born just
before the war started, and completed their family. Married to Adonis (Long)
they live in Decatur .
Both Gladys and Kert were always helpful in their community,
always willing to lend a helping hand.
Kert died in 1994, at age 85.
Gladys elected to stay on in their home place, so daughter Betty and her
husband Charles Balch built a home across the country road from her when they
retired.
Gladys was always more than just a ‘stay at home’ mom. In turn she taught school, worked in a
doctor’s office, became a helper for the Home Demonstration Agent, and was
always involved in her church and community, especially in the interests of her
children. In my mind she was always
proficient in everything. When I was a
sophomore at the University
of Alabama and was
invited to a prom, I called on Gladys.
The sisters’ hand-me-downs which were the mainstay of my wardrobe did
not include an evening gown. A few days
before the formal I received a package: a red and white checked taffeta evening
dress which fit perfectly! It was
admired, and eventually worn, by many of my friends. Again, years later, when I had returned to
the University with an NDEA Fellowship for a Masters Degree in Special
Education I was to attend an international Conference in Toronto , Canada . Again, without my being there for fitting,
she made a beautiful salmon colored wool jersey dress and sent it for my trip. I‘ll
bet each of my siblings could relate ‘Gladys stories” to rival mine.
Gladys passed some of her talents and her intellect down to
her children and six grandchildren,
almost all of whom are college graduates, a few with advanced degrees, one a
doctorate. Among the younger generation are nine great grand children and two
great-great grandchildren.
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I’ll bet they all know how to cook, or will soon, and they
know a great many other life skills.
Gladys skills include knitting and crocheting, quilting, baking, canning,
gardening, and flower grower extraordinaire.
For each child and grandchild she has made quilts, crocheted table cloths and has always been a wise
counsel. When I visited her recently she
had just completed another crocheted throw, for herself this time. “Oh, it has some mistakes”, she said. I couldn’t find any.
Did I make it clear?
All relatives, especially close ones, are expected to attend the
BIRTHDAY PARTY.